Says the original author:“I would be lying if I said it didn’t get to me.I thought it would be some fun thing, something where I would do it and worse case scenario say “lol I was a guy I trolled you lulz”, etc.“The introduction of the Internet,” she adds, “has changed the face of what had been the traditional affair.Namely, a sexual relationship between two people that happens in person with an element of physicality. Boredom, curiosity and lack of communication with a spouse — all these have been blamed for online affairs blooming in the first place. Chat rooms, interactive websites, blogging and public networking forums like Facebook have inadvertently invited strangers into many bedrooms. “Cybersex is also easier to hide and it usually doesn’t cost money.” With the internet’s coming of age, so have multiple opportunities to meet someone online and get romantically involved.but within a 2 hour span it got me really down and I was feeling really uncomfortable with everything.I figured I would get some weird messages here and there, but what I got was an onslaught of people who were, within minutes of saying hello, saying things that made me as a dude who spends most of his time on 4chan uneasy.
Man barely lasts two hours as a woman because the responses from his fellow men are so toxic.“At first I thought it was fun, I thought it was weird but maybe I would mess with them or something and freak them out and tell them I was a guy or something, but as more and more messages came (either replies or new ones I had about 10 different guys message me within 2 hours) the nature of them continued to get more and more irritating.The absence of that somehow allows for a big degree of denial about the relationship even being an affair in the first place.” “Online affairs represent safety, fantasy, and a big escape tunnel. While some argue how you get to investigating online sex options is important, others point to what happens once you get there as being what matters.They don’t count because there is no one-to-one contact. It can create a real problem in your relationship at home.Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.”As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.