And once you know how it is inadvertently turning off the men who are looking for a positive, fun connection, it’s really not that difficult.Here are the top five profile mistakes common to women over 40, along with specific tips to make your profile more appealing and reflective of the best you. Your profile is your calling card, not a wish list.Because, let’s face it, the odds are not in our favor, ladies.As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided. But according to TODAY’s “This is 50” survey results, only 18 percent of single people in their 50s said they were dating.On the positive side, the age 50-plus daters seem to be pretty darn smart when choosing a date-mate. Make sure you get to talk about yourself in a meaningful way as well. It will bring out the best in him and insure that you both have the best time possible. I Love You, there is something valuable to learn from every date.After all, you’ve probably accomplished a lot in your life without a man and are prepared to continue doing so.
More than 40 percent said they were considering it, but not actually doing it.The grown-up dater gives him a reasonable amount of time to show up, and then says a big “So what! Take care of yourself by initiating a conversation and sharing your needs and wants. If you are dealing with a grown-up man he will appreciate and respect you for it. It’s too generic, common and, frankly says nothing about you that’s interesting.Instead, be more specific and paint a picture for him.