The point of it should be to figure out why certain problems are arising in the relationship and to decide if they’re fixable.It’s also a good chance for both people in the relationship to focus on themselves for a bit.
I was an ass, I made an incredible fool of myself, I traumatized my friends and worst of all, I hurt that poor girls feelings.
It’s not that You also can’t bug him for reassurance that he’s gonna come back and the relationship will resume.
Instead, use that time to focus on other areas of your life. Confidence is a huge turn on for a guy and whether you’re a guy or a girl, you always want what you can’t have.
Editor’s Note: A little while back, I was having a conversation online with a close guy friend of mine about “breaks.” As we learned from Ross on “Friends,” the rules of being on a break can get murky and may wind up costing you your entire relationship.
Being on a break is different for men and women because men and women are very different when it comes to relationships in general… The conversation I was having with my friend got so interesting and enlightening, I asked him to elaborate further on the subject and took our exchange and turned it into an entire article. Whenever a guy says he wants a “break” or some time to just “chill for a bit,” it usually means he’s feeling stressed or overwhelmed by the relationship and needs time to work things out on his own.