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You can even use our interactive map to find swingers party options and swingers clubs.

You will find that the swing community is open and welcoming overall.

The latter are referred to as off-premises, and have the same function as a speed-dating event in that couples attend to meet other likeminded swinger couples in the lifestyle, there is however no swinging on site, and whatever happens after the event is at the discretion of the couples in question.

This draws parallels from the gay cursing scene, where no always means no, and that a polite decline should never be taken personally.

The clandestine nature of swinging and the swinger's lifestyle community seems to have created an etiquette that all but expunges the possibility for violence or acrimonious conflict.

This practical arrangement supplants the socially arbitrated and pre-determined convention of monogamy.

A consistent point that emerged from research by Thomas & Terry Gould, is that in nearly each and every interview held, it was the male part in couples that first suggested swinging to the woman. This is demonstrated by the very high levels of bi-sexuality found in swinging women, but that fact that bi-sexuality in men in all but abhorred in the swinging community.

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